>>25743417
recently I recall reading about small ethnic group either in africa or asia (not sure now) that had a custom, where daughter reached 13yo, parents would build a shack for her where she would invite any boy or man she wanted for sex, and if sex was good they would then marry which apparently lead to very low divorce rate, unfortunately the custom was dying as westernized officials were seeking to destroy it, but the point is that the thinking is culturally shaped